Are men facing a modern masculinity crisis?
In Episode 95 of Pre-Zero Sports Talk, Sid Bensalah sits down with Maxim Shapiro, men’s purpose coach and founder of Forward Motion Coaching, for a raw and honest conversation about depression, identity, effort, and reclaiming authentic self-leadership.
Maxim shares how years of drifting, negative self-talk, and playing it safe led to deep dissatisfaction. In his early 40s, a “jarring awakening” pushed him to move from Massachusetts to California, start a business, commit to a long-term relationship, and come off antidepressants. What followed was not comfort, but growth.
This episode explores:
• Why many men feel lost or displaced in today’s culture
• The difference between the true self and the performed self
• Effort vs results and redefining success
• Loving as effort and leadership as presence
• Digital culture, dopamine, and declining real community
• Rebuilding belonging through hard, shared practices like jiu-jitsu
• Practical steps to move from stuck to alive
Maxim explains that self-respect grows from consistent effort, not outcomes. Big goals matter even without guarantees. Authenticity requires stillness, breathing, intuition, and the courage to say what is true.
00:00 – Weather Check & Setting the Conversation
02:10 – Depression at 19 and Early Negative Self-Talk
04:26 – Drifting Without Purpose
06:45 – Moving to California and Going All-In
12:22 – Effort Over Results and Self-Respect
18:13 – Big Goals and Redefining Failure
24:10 – What Success Really Means
32:54 – Coaching Men to Open Up
36:19 – Intuition, Stillness, and Authenticity
38:47 – True Self vs Performed Self
42:47 – Masculinity Today and Leadership
46:30 – Digital Culture and Disconnection
49:43 – Rebuilding Community Through Jiu-Jitsu
52:10 – Small Consistent Actions That Create Change
55:44 – Lightning Round
01:01:05 – Viktor Frankl Closing
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